Because the Los Angeles Rams clinched their Super Bowl berth at SoFi Stadium two weeks in the past, Kelly Stafford — the wife of their quarterback Matthew Stafford — “utterly collapsed.”
“We have been hugging and crying,” Ali Chapas, Stafford’s finest buddy, instructed The Publish. “Individuals have been on this journey with Matthew since faculty and know what they’ve been by. It felt like we have been in a sports activities film.”
The Staffords, who met on the College of Georgia, spent 12 seasons in Detroit the place Matt performed by bruising accidents and by no means notched a postseason win.
And off the sphere, Kelly, 32, who now hosts the Morning After podcast and made headlines in November for chucking a soft pretzel at a 49ers fan, has endured her personal harrowing well being ordeal. In 2019, she underwent a grueling 12-hour surgery to take away a benign tumor from her mind.
“I feel Kelly would by no means need to make it about her and her battle with her mind tumor but it surely clearly provides to their story. And the actual fact they’ve gone by a lot, it makes it a lot sweeter that they’re on this place proper now,” stated Chapas.
Troubling vertigo
Kelly, then a mom of three, realized one thing was off in early 2019 when she started experiencing debilitating bouts of vertigo. The scariest episode occurred whereas holding her toddler daughter, Hunter. The couple have 4 younger women, together with twins Sawyer and Chandler, who will flip 5 subsequent month, Hunter, 3, and Tyler, 1.
“The room began spinning round me and I felt like I used to be going to fall down. I virtually threw Hunter to Matthew, as a result of I didn’t need her to go down with me,” she told ESPN in 2019.
She was prescribed Antivert, a drugs to deal with vertigo, however her signs solely worsened. The Staffords then enlisted the assistance of the Lions staff physician who organized for her to have a mind MRI.
The prognosis was stunning. She had a benign brain tumor.
“The medical time period was an acoustic neuroma or vestibular schwannoma. There was a tumor sitting on a few of my cranial nerves. I used to be instructed I wanted to have surgical procedure to take away it. And I used to be terrified,” she stated.
In accordance with Dr. John Boockvar, the vice chair of Neurosurgery at Lenox Hill Hospital, it’s the third most typical benign mind tumor seen in people. He known as it, “unusual however not uncommon. In the USA, there are about 2,000 to three,000 circumstances yearly,” Boockvar stated.
The indicators could be robust to identify. “An acoustic neuroma often manifests itself with listening to loss or ringing within the ear or, as within the case of Kelly, vertigo,” he added.
He stated the tumor is often the scale of a walnut or golf ball and there are three therapy choices: Sufferers can depart it alone and monitor the mass, bear radiation or go for surgical procedure. She determined to have it eliminated.
Her largest concern
After her prognosis, Kelly texted Chapas, who’s married to Shaun Chapas, a teammate of Matt’s at each UGA and the Lions, asking to Facetime with the couple.
“Once we discovered it was a mind tumor, we have been in full shock,” Chapas stated. However the Staffords appeared settled. “They have been already at a robust level with it. It was a matter of reality. ‘That is what we’re coping with. We aren’t feeling sorry for ourselves.’”
As Kelly started to inform pals, they rallied round her, together with shut pal Hank Winchester, the “Assist Me Hank” shopper reporter with WDIV, the Detroit NBC affiliate.
“I do know one factor to be very true,” he instructed The Publish. “Although Matthew is that this sturdy, robust soccer participant, Kelly is harder than hell and I knew she would face this adversity the suitable method.”
She then went public, sharing her journey on social media — a spot that hasn’t all the time been pleasant to her household, given her husband’s occupation.
“After I posted my story on social media, I used to be feeling actually susceptible, and felt like I wanted a bunch of individuals on my staff at that time. I prefaced it in a method that I wished prayers, greater than something. The extra people who find themselves praying for you, the extra success you’ll have in something you’re praying for,” Kelly stated.
Nonetheless, Kelly anxious that the surgical procedure may go flawed. “My largest concern shouldn’t be being right here, and never being right here to lift my women,” Kelly instructed ESPN.
Chapas recalled her buddy, whom she met at a Georgia highschool, writing heartbreaking letters to her daughters. “You couldn’t learn them and never cry.”
A tricky restoration
Boockvar stated Kelly, who’s younger and wholesome, was a chief candidate for surgical procedure, although it did pose some risks.
“The largest danger particularly in a younger lovely lady is facial palsy. In the event you dissect the tumor off the listening to nerve you possibly can injure the facial nerve and it may be everlasting.”
And her surgeon, Dr. Gregory Thompson, was thrown a curveball when he found an “anomalous” artery that turned what ought to have been a six-hour process was a 12-hour one.
“He had solely seen one different case like this, and he needed to reroute their whole [surgical] plan,” stated Chapas, including that Matt despatched her textual content updates with none indication there was turbulence. In the end, the surgical procedure was successful.
“[Thompson] took his time & was affected person,” Kelly wrote on Instagram a couple of weeks after going underneath the knife. “There was a second once they thought I might need misplaced my listening to utterly. He made everybody & all the pieces cease, all of them sat, & waited for a while … the audio wave returned. His persistence saved my listening to, in addition to my face.”
However the aftermath was brutal. Stafford needed to be taught to stroll once more. And he or she wasn’t in a position to see her daughters for 2 weeks.
“The docs prompt it could be finest for them to be out of the home, or wherever I used to be recovering. Loud noises have been laborious for me. I couldn’t carry my women in any respect. They all the time need to be with me, or crawl on prime of me. Studying to stroll once more was a course of and having little ones working at your toes was in all probability not the very best concept.”
She ultimately began understanding once more, and used boxing as her remedy.
“She had a terrific assist system round her however on the finish of the day, it got here right down to her. She needed to persevere. And he or she went again to the gymnasium and was crushing it. It motivated and impressed me,” stated Winchester.
In April 2021, she took to Instagram to have a good time a milestone, writing, “At this time celebrating the clear 2 yr scan and all the brand new adventures my household and I are going to have on this subsequent yr!”
The publish was fairly prescient. A type of new adventures meant a visit to the Tremendous Bowl — a sport that remained elusive to Stafford till his thirteenth season within the NFL.
Winchester, who’s flying out for the sport, stated the couple’s hardships cast a good stronger bond with Detroit followers, who’re rooting for Stafford and the Rams.
“When Matthew got here to Detroit, he was not married. He was relationship Kelly. They bought engaged, married and had 4 infants in Detroit. She had her mind surgical procedure on the College of Michigan. They noticed this couple develop and their love story play out. Although they’re in Los Angeles, their presence could be very a lot felt right here.”
Chapas added that the Staffords are akin to a Cinderella story — and simple to get behind.
“The best issues about them individually and as a pair is that they’re the very same folks they have been in highschool and faculty, simply with a a lot larger home.”
