A person who acquired a devastating most cancers prognosis after an “harmless” play struggle at a household gathering has urged others to get signs checked out as quickly as potential.
Rob Draper, 27, from Wirral was having fun with a heat summer time’s night in late July when a relative innocently slapped his abdomen.
“I used to be having just a few drinks in my entrance backyard within the good weather with my girlfriend and household after work,” he told Liverpool Echo.
“After I was having a drink, I used to be messing round me and my sister’s boyfriend, he slapped me on the abdomen simply messing about. Later I received these horrible pains in my abdomen and felt like I’d been stabbed.”
After experiencing “excruciating” abdomen pains, he observed blood on a go to to the bathroom and visited his GP the subsequent day.
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“Clearly I went to the physician the subsequent day they usually rushed me to Arrowe Park hospital. I used to be in there for a few week and a half, I had a digicam down my throat, then they starved me for 3 days to do one other digicam.
“I received advised there was a gastro-intestinal tumour in my abdomen, it’s referred to as duodenal most cancers.”
Rob, who works as a psychological well being care employee, has since undergone a ten and a half hour surgical procedure to take away the tumour, together with a Whipple process to take away the top of his pancreas.
His first surgical procedure was cancelled as a result of pandemic, so he was compelled to attend one other week in isolation for a second appointment. “It was horrible, actually worrying,” he mentioned.
“The most cancers had unfold into just a few totally different locations, into my pancreas, spleen, small intestines and bowel.”
He’s at present recovering from surgical procedure at hospital, the place he’s awaiting additional checks to seek out out whether or not all the tumour has been caught.
He mentioned: “The final couple of days I’d say I really feel model new to be sincere, clearly I’m in ache the place my scar is however I really feel like I’m therapeutic and recovering.”
Rob mentioned he needed to share his ordeal within the hopes of elevating consciousness of the significance of getting checked out on the first signal of signs.
He advised the Echo that he had noticed issues earlier than July. He mentioned: “I had just a few issues for a few years, passing blood on and off once in a while and I had gone to the docs a few occasions, had my prostate checked and it was all nice, no issues, so I’d thought it was in all probability nothing and left it at that.”
He added: “You don’t anticipate it , you see all these adverts on the TV and my girlfriend had mentioned you might want to get checked out, I’ve received a two-year-old son, I’m 27 and also you assume I’ll be alright, I’ll be okay, however I want I’d have gotten checked sooner.
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“Should you’ve received issues or signs, don’t mess about, get it checked out.
“That night time, that play struggle, it made the tumour bleed but when that didn’t occur it could have killed me as I didn’t have some other signs.
“That play struggle surely saved my life, I’m so grateful that occurred.”
Two of Rob’s pals have arrange a fundraising web page to assist his household to cope with the monetary strains of him being off work resulting from his prognosis and therapy.
Rob added: “It’s been actually tough, it was a tough time working throughout Covid and now this has occurred. It’s been the toughest time in my life to be sincere, it’s scary, I’ve been nice however deep down I’ve been petrified.
“Greater than something, I simply need to increase consciousness for folks to get checked. I don’t need anybody to should undergo what I’ve gone by means of.”
To donate to the fundraiser for Rob Draper and his household click on here.
